sajnálom

Sajnálom is a common Hungarian expression used to apologize or to express sympathy. Literally translating as “I pity” or “I regret,” it functions as the standard first-person singular present tense form of the verb sajnál, and is the primary way to say “I’m sorry” in everyday speech.

The phrase expresses remorse for one’s own action or sympathy for someone else’s situation. It can stand alone for a brief apology, as in “Sajnálom,” or be expanded with a clause: “Sajnálom, hogy késik” (I’m sorry that I’m late). In more formal contexts, speakers may prefer related forms such as “Elnézést kérek” (I apologize).

Grammatically, sajnál means to pity or regret, and adding the first-person singular suffix -om yields “sajnálom” meaning “I pity/regret” or “I’m sorry.” Other forms exist for different subjects, e.g., “Sajnáljuk” (we are sorry). The noun form “sajnálat” expresses regret or pity as a concept, rather than an instance of apologizing.

Usage and nuance: In everyday Hungarian, “Sajnálom” signals politeness and empathy and is suitable for informal and semi-formal situations. For formal apologies, speakers may rely on “Elnézést kérek” or use a fuller construction such as “Sajnálom, hogy ezt történte.” The term is a staple of conversational etiquette and media language in Hungarian.