ngushëllim

Ngushëllim is the Albanian term for condolence, referring to the expression of sympathy offered to someone who has suffered a loss, most commonly the death of a relative or close friend. The word is used across Albanian-speaking communities in Albania, Kosovo, and the diaspora, and appears in both spoken and written forms of communication.

In practice, condolences are conveyed at funerals, during visits to the bereaved, or through written messages, letters, or cards. The gesture signals solidarity and support from the community and is regarded as an important part of responding to loss.

Common expressions include "Ngushëllimet e mia" (my condolences) and "Ngushëllime të sinqerta" (sincere condolences). The act of offering ngushëllim can be directed toward immediate family members as well as to the broader circle affected by the death, and the formality of the expression may vary with context and relationship.

Etiquette and cultural context emphasize sincerity and sensitivity. Condolences are typically offered promptly and respectfully, avoiding intrusive questions about the circumstances of the death. In written condolences, a brief but heartfelt message is customary, with gratitude often expressed for the support received from friends and relatives. The practice of ngushëllim reflects the communal nature of Albanian social life, where shared mourning reinforces social bonds.