fedretesok

Fedretesok is a traditional Norwegian custom practiced in some rural areas, particularly in the western parts of the country. The name itself translates to "father's visit" or "father's journey." Historically, fedretesok was an occasion where a father would visit his married daughters and their families. This visit was often a significant event, marking a time for the extended family to reconnect and for the father to check on his children and grandchildren.

The exact customs and timing of fedretesok varied from one locality to another. In some instances, it occurred annually, while in others, it might have been less frequent. The visit could involve the father bringing gifts, offering advice, or simply spending time with his family. It was also an opportunity for the father to demonstrate his continued involvement and support for his daughters' households. While the practice is less common today due to modernization and changing family structures, elements of fedretesok can still be observed in some communities as a way of maintaining family traditions and strengthening intergenerational bonds. The sentiment behind it, that of a father's care and connection to his offspring, remains a valued aspect of family life.