elopes

Elopes is a term used to describe a secret marriage ceremony performed without the knowledge or consent of the couple's parents or guardians. This practice often occurs when couples face significant opposition to their union, such as disapproval based on social status, religion, or family feuds. Historically, elopements were more common due to stricter societal norms and parental control over marriage decisions.

The act of eloping typically involves the couple leaving their homes, often traveling to another town or jurisdiction, to get married. This allows them to bypass traditional wedding customs and parental blessings. The secrecy surrounding elopements can be due to a variety of reasons, including fear of repercussions, desire for immediate union, or simply a wish to avoid elaborate and potentially costly wedding ceremonies.

While elopements were once viewed with scandal, societal attitudes have evolved. Today, eloping is often seen as a more personal and intimate way for a couple to commit to each other, prioritizing their relationship over external expectations. Some couples choose to elope for financial reasons, to simplify their wedding plans, or simply because it aligns with their personal values. Many jurisdictions have simplified marriage license requirements, making elopements more accessible.