cshúzásos

cshúzásos is a Hungarian term that translates directly to "shoe-pulling" or "pulling shoes." It describes a specific, albeit informal, event or activity that traditionally takes place during weddings in Hungary, particularly in rural areas. The core of cshúzásos involves the groom's friends or groomsmen attempting to "steal" the bride's shoes.

The custom is usually playful and serves as a way to entertain guests and add to the festive atmosphere of the wedding reception. The groomsmen will playfully hide the bride's shoes, and the groom is then tasked with finding them. Often, a ransom is involved, with the groom having to pay a small amount of money or buy drinks for his friends in exchange for the return of the shoes. This exchange is typically a lighthearted negotiation.

The act of cshúzásos is symbolic and has various interpretations. Some believe it represents the groom proving his worth and his ability to take care of his bride by retrieving what belongs to her. Others see it as a final test of his resourcefulness before he enters married life. It is a custom that emphasizes camaraderie and adds a memorable, interactive element to the wedding celebration, fostering a sense of shared enjoyment among the wedding party and guests. While less common in modern, urban weddings, it can still be found in more traditional celebrations.