condolatory

Condolatory is an adjective used to describe expressions or actions intended to convey condolences to someone who is grieving. It refers to remarks, messages, gestures, or services that offer sympathy for a bereaved person or family. The term is formed from the verb condole—to express sympathy for sorrow—and is typically used in formal or ceremonial contexts.

Common collocations include condolatory message, condolatory remarks, condolatory letter, and condolatory gesture. In everyday language, people more often say condolence or offers of condolence, or use the adjective condolent. Examples include sentences such as: a condolatory note sent to the family, or the president’s condolatory remarks at the service. While correct, condolatory tends to appear in formal writing, notices, or ceremonial speech rather than casual conversation.

Usage notes: condolatory is relatively rare and may be perceived as formal or archaic outside official contexts. When writing or speaking in less formal settings, many prefer expressions such as “condolences,” “express condolences,” or “condolent remarks.” The term can function across various contexts, including letters, speeches, obituaries, and public tributes.

Related terms include condolence (the noun), condolent (an adjective meaning expressing sympathy), and condoling (sharing in someone’s grief). These forms cover the range of ways to acknowledge bereavement and to offer sympathy.