Tulosteestaan

Tulosteestaan is a term used in Finnish to describe the aftermath of a family process that ends in separation or divorce. The term translates to "from the cut" in English, with "tuloste" meaning "cut" and "eestaan" being the possessive form of "istuu" meaning "is". This word is not directly translated in English, but it serves to describe the impact of a breakup on family members, particularly those dependent on the separating parents.

During tulosteestaan, each parent tries to get used to their new living arrangements, while the children often experience emotional and psychological strain. Tulosteestaan is an acknowledged aspect of Finnish law and is recognized as a critical period for rebuilding family life and strengthening family bonds. During this time, family members often seek support from various services and counseling centers.

In case of a severe disagreement, tulosteestaan may turn into an emotionally challenging situation for the whole family. The process is not determined by emotions, however, but by the fulfillment of financial and logistical duties related to an ongoing separation or divorce.

Finnish law takes the responsibilities of parents during and after a separation seriously. Tulosteestaan serves as a possible avenue for change that families might need during and after the separation to ultimately move forward in a healthy manner.