Sexminuting

Sexminuting is a term used to describe the practice of recording or summarizing sexual experiences in a structured, minute-like format. Coined by some sex education and therapy communities, it refers to documenting aspects of sexual activity such as communication, consent, arousal, satisfaction, and boundaries. The concept is a neologism and is not yet standardized or universally adopted.

In practice, sexminuting can take the form of shared journals, notes between partners, or formal logs used in research or therapy. It may involve pre-session agreements, post-session reflections, and categorization of factors that influenced the encounter. Proponents argue that it can improve consent, reduce miscommunication, and provide data for personal growth or educational purposes. It can be conducted asynchronously after a session or, in some models, as part of a live protocol agreed upon by all participants.

Ethical considerations are central to the practice. Participants should provide informed consent, and any recorded data should be stored securely with clear privacy protections. Recording should be voluntary and not coercive, and partners should agree on what information is appropriate to log and who may access it. The approach should respect boundaries and comply with applicable laws and norms regarding sexual content and data.

Criticism and limitations include the potential for performance pressure, increased self-monitoring anxiety, and discomfort with recording intimate details. There is limited empirical evidence on efficacy, and the practice may not suit all relationship styles or cultural contexts. Proponents emphasize careful implementation, mutual trust, and ongoing dialogue.

See also: sex journaling, consent, sexual communication, sex therapy.