Abikaasa

Abikaasa is the Estonian word for a person's spouse or life partner in the context of marriage or a legally recognized partnership. The term is widely used in everyday speech as well as in official language and documentation.

In everyday Estonian, abikaasa denotes the person to whom someone is married or who forms part of a registered partnership. It is commonly used with possessives, for example “minu abikaasa” meaning “my spouse.” The word is gender-neutral and focuses on the partner’s role rather than gender.

In legal and social contexts, abikaasa appears in discussions of rights and duties that arise from marriage or a registered partnership. These can include matters related to property, decision-making in certain situations, and entitlements in inheritance or social security, where the status of a spouse can affect outcomes.

Related terms include elukaaslane, meaning life partner, which can be used to emphasize non-marital partnerships, and abielu, which refers to the institution of marriage itself. While abikaasa names the partner, language can shift toward more neutral terms in different contexts, but abikaasa remains the standard everyday reference to a spouse.