sidekesta

Sidekesta is a term that emerged from online communities, particularly within discussions related to relationships and dating. It generally refers to a secondary romantic interest or partner who is not considered the primary romantic focus. This concept often implies a situation where an individual is pursuing or maintaining a relationship with one person while also having some level of romantic involvement, or at least strong romantic interest, in another.

The term is not formal and is primarily used in informal contexts. It can carry a range of connotations depending on the specific situation and the perspective of the individuals involved. In some instances, it might describe a situation where someone is keeping their options open or has a platonic relationship that has the potential for romantic development. In other contexts, it can be used to describe a more clandestine or less serious romantic entanglement that exists alongside a more established relationship.

The dynamics of a sidekesta situation can vary significantly. It may involve active communication and consent between all parties, or it could be a situation where the primary partner is unaware of the secondary interest. The ethical implications and emotional impact of such arrangements are often debated within the communities where the term is used. The term itself is a colloquialism and does not represent a formally recognized relationship status.