megkérése

Megkérése is a Hungarian term that translates directly to "asking for" or "requesting." In a social context, it most commonly refers to the act of a suitor formally asking for a young woman's hand in marriage. This tradition is deeply rooted in Hungarian culture and historically involved the groom-to-be, often accompanied by his family or a respected elder, visiting the bride's parents. The purpose was to express his intentions and seek their blessing and permission.

The megkérése ceremony could range in formality. In some instances, it was a solemn occasion with a specific set of protocols, while in others, it might have been a more casual conversation. Regardless of the specific form, it represented a significant step in the courtship process, signifying commitment and respect for the woman and her family. While traditional megkérése practices have evolved over time with modernization, the underlying sentiment of seeking familial approval and formally declaring intentions for marriage often persists in varying degrees within Hungarian communities and families. The term itself remains a cultural touchstone for discussions around marriage proposals and familial involvement in such decisions.