Performativethey

Performativethey is a non-binary personal pronoun. It is used by individuals who identify outside the traditional gender binary and wish to avoid using gendered pronouns such as he/him or she/her. The use of "they" as a singular pronoun has a long history in English, and "performativethey" is a specific adaptation within this context.

The emergence of performativethey and other neopronouns reflects a growing awareness and acceptance of diverse gender identities. For some, using performativethey is a way to assert their identity and challenge societal norms that often assume a gender binary. It emphasizes that gender is not a fixed, inherent characteristic but can be expressed and performed.

The adoption of performativethey by individuals is a personal choice. Supporters of its use argue that it offers a more inclusive and accurate way to refer to non-binary people. Critics or those unfamiliar with the pronoun may express confusion or find it challenging to adopt. However, the intention behind its use is to respect and validate the gender identity of the individual.

Understanding and respecting personal pronouns, including performativethey, is considered a fundamental aspect of inclusivity and allyship. It is generally recommended to ask someone what pronouns they use if unsure, and to use them consistently once known. The linguistic evolution of pronouns continues to adapt to societal changes and a broader understanding of gender.