Hylätyksihylätyiksi

Hylätyksihylätyiksi is a Finnish term that translates to "abandoned by the abandoned." It refers to a situation where individuals or groups who have already experienced abandonment, whether through personal relationships, social exclusion, or societal neglect, are subsequently rejected or left behind by others who are also in a state of abandonment or marginalization. This creates a compounding layer of rejection, where those already coping with the trauma of being cast aside face further isolation from those who might be expected to offer understanding or solidarity.

The concept highlights a particularly harsh form of social dynamics, suggesting a failure of empathy or connection even among those who have themselves suffered similar fates. It can manifest in various contexts, such as within support groups where new members might be excluded by those who have been there longer but still feel ostracized, or in broader societal issues where vulnerable populations fail to support each other due to their own ongoing struggles. The term underscores the deep-seated pain and psychological impact of repeated rejection, emphasizing the profound sense of isolation and despair that can result from being abandoned by the already abandoned.