HeSheThey

Heshethey is a term used to describe a triad pronoun set that combines he, she, and they to refer to a single person. It is used by some individuals who wish to acknowledge masculine, feminine, and nonbinary identities, or who are exploring gender fluidity. The term appears in discussions of inclusive language and gender diversity, and is part of the broader category of neopronouns.

Usage varies by individual. Some people designate particular pronouns from the set for different situations, while others allow all three forms to be used interchangeably. In practice, the correct approach is to ask a person which pronouns they prefer and to honor that preference in both speaking and writing. When the pronoun set is used, writers may choose to use he, she, or they in accordance with the individual's preference, or may alternate between them across sentences or contexts. There is no single universal standard.

Examples of usage include: "Alex uses heshethey pronouns." "Alex said they would arrive at noon." Some contexts may also allow reference with male or female forms if that aligns with the person's stated preference.

Reception and context: The concept is not universally accepted; supporters say it supports inclusivity and acknowledges a range of gender experiences, while critics argue it can complicate grammar and consistency. Public-facing and academic style guides vary in how they address triad pronouns, and individual institutions or communities often develop their own guidelines.

See also: pronouns, neopronouns, gender identity, inclusive language.