fürunfreundlichsind

Fürunfreundlichsind is a neologism that has circulated in German-language online communities to describe a pattern of behavior in which individuals project unfriendly attitudes as a deliberate norm. It is not part of standard German but appears in discussions about online dynamics, moderation, and social exclusion in digital spaces.

Etymology: The term seems to be a portmanteau-like construction, combining fuer (for), unfreundlich (unfriendly), and sind (are). It is typically written without spaces, reflecting online slang practices that create compact labels. Grammatically it functions as a predicate phrase that could translate loosely to “are unfriendly by design.”

Usage: The expression is used descriptively to label people, groups, or spaces perceived as intentionally unwelcoming. It can denote gatekeeping, sarcasm, or chilling effects that discourage participation. In some contexts it is used critically to argue for more inclusive moderation; in others it is invoked humorously to mock overly harsh norms within a community.

Examples: In a discussion about welcoming newcomers, someone might write, “The term fuerunfreundlichsind was used to describe the moderators’ attitude.” Another user might respond, “Some see it as gatekeeping rather than constructive critique.” Such examples illustrate how the term functions as a shorthand for perceived hostility in online spaces.

See also: gatekeeping, online civility, trolling, in-group language.