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Theythemtheir is a term used in discussions of pronouns to describe the pronoun set they, them, and their. This pronoun set is chosen by some individuals who identify as nonbinary or gender nonconforming, and it functions in the same way as other pronouns in English. They is the subject pronoun, them is the object pronoun, and their/theirs are the possessive determiner and possessive pronoun, respectively.

In practice, sentences using theythemtheir pronouns follow standard English grammar for plural pronouns. Examples include: They are arriving soon. I spoke with them yesterday. That book is theirs. Although the form is identical to the common plural pronouns, singular usage is common when referring to a single person who uses these pronouns.

Social and linguistic context: The adoption of they/them/their reflects efforts to respect gender diversity and reduce misgendering. They/them/their is increasingly recognized in academic, workplace, and media contexts, and many major style guides acknowledge singular they as appropriate in appropriate contexts.

Best practices for usage: When you are unsure of a person’s pronouns, ask respectfully and use the pronouns they specify. Use the person’s name as a default if unsure, and update pronouns across communications, documents, and platforms. Consistent usage signals respect and supports clear communication.