erastai

Erastai were a social group in ancient Athenian society. The term derives from the Greek verb erao, meaning "to desire" or "to long for." Erastai were typically older, established Athenian citizens, often from the upper classes. They were involved in a pederastic relationship with a younger boy, known as an eromenos. This relationship was a recognized and often celebrated part of Athenian social life, particularly during the Archaic and Classical periods.

The role of the erastes was multifaceted. Beyond a romantic or sexual interest, the erastes was expected to act as a mentor and guide to the eromenos. This involved educating the boy in matters of politics, philosophy, rhetoric, and the arts, preparing him for his future role as a citizen. The erastes would also often support the eromenos financially, providing him with resources and opportunities. This mentorship was seen as crucial for the proper upbringing and social integration of Athenian youth.

The relationship was characterized by a strict social code. While physical intimacy could be a component, the emphasis was often placed on the intellectual and moral development of the eromenos. The erastes was expected to be chaste and honorable in his conduct towards the boy, and the relationship was ideally meant to be a temporary stage in the eromenos's life, culminating in his transition to adulthood and marriage. Socially, the erastes was often admired for his virtue and his dedication to raising a worthy future citizen. The absence of such relationships could sometimes be viewed negatively, suggesting a lack of civic engagement or personal virtue on the part of the older man.