demurred

Demurred is the past tense and past participle of the verb demur. To demur means to raise doubts or objections or to show reluctance. It can also mean to object to a proceeding or course of action. For example, if someone asks you to do something you are unsure about, you might demur, meaning you express your reservations or hesitations.

The word demur originates from the Old French word "demourer," meaning to delay or remain. This historical connection highlights the sense of holding back or pausing before proceeding. In legal contexts, a demur can be a formal objection to the legal sufficiency of a pleading or to evidence being presented. This type of demur is a procedural move that argues that even if the facts presented are true, they do not constitute a valid claim or defense.

Beyond legal settings, demurring is a common way to express polite disagreement or caution. It suggests a thoughtful pause rather than outright refusal. Someone might demur from an invitation if they have prior commitments or are unsure if they can attend. Similarly, a person might demur from making a decision, indicating they need more time or information before committing. The act of demurring implies a consideration of the request or proposal and a reasoned, though perhaps indirect, opposition or delay.