meaningother

Meaningother is a neologism used in online discourse to describe a person who provides a sense of meaning or purpose to another person’s life. It is often applied to intimate partners, close friends, or family members who help someone interpret experiences, pursue goals, or endure hardship. The term emphasizes the role of the other person in contributing existential significance rather than merely offering support or affection.

Etymology and usage: The coinage appears to be a compound of "meaning" and "other," with an optional allusion to a caregiver metaphor of a "mother" figure, though many uses do not imply parentage. It is primarily used in informal contexts, including blogs, social media, and discussion forums, and does not have a formal definition in major dictionaries. It is sometimes contrasted with terms like soulmate or life partner, focusing on meaning-making rather than romantic ideals.

Reception: The term remains niche and informal. Proponents argue it captures a distinct psychological function—the way a person can render life meaningful. Critics warn that it risks essentializing relationships or reinforcing gendered or caregiver roles. Some commentators also caution that "meaning" is subjective and can place an uneven emotional burden on the "meaningother."

Example: A person might write, "After years of struggle, my partner became my meaningother, helping me find purpose again."

See also: meaning in life, caregiver, soulmate.