Verwenning

Verwenning is a Dutch noun meaning the act or process of pampering or indulging someone with attention, care, or gifts. It is derived from the verb verwennen (to pamper or spoil) with the nominalizing suffix -ing. In usage, verwenning denotes a deliberate set of practices aimed at making another person feel special or cared for, often to strengthen social bonds or express affection.

In Dutch-speaking regions, verwenning appears in family life, caregiving, hospitality, and consumer contexts. Examples include preparing preferred meals, arranging relaxing services, offering thoughtful gifts, or providing extra comforts. In parenting and elder care, verwenning is discussed as part of balancing warmth and boundaries.

As a cultural concept, verwenning can have positive effects on trust and well-being when moderating expectations and reciprocity are present, but excessive or persistent pampering may contribute to entitlement or dependency. Some critics call for mindful application and attention to long-term development and autonomy.

In English, verwenning is often translated as pampering or spoiling, but the Dutch term carries a distinct social nuance rooted in everyday practices and relational warmth. Related terms include verwennen and pampering.